Facebook sex addict slept with 50 men

It's actually more about the hottness of the girl, then the amount of girls.

Quality over quantity.

I think we should judge the risk to the public health. She doesn't sound like the type that would practice safe sex.

tigerblade : are you just trying to evaluate "how bad" it is?

In a way, I suppose. 50 guys in a one-month timeframe is considerably different than 50 guys over the course of a year or two. I would think the exact same thing of any guy who's been with 50 women in the same duration.

It's actually more about the hottness of the girl, then the amount of girls.

Quality over quantity.

That's not actually true either. Their have been studies (should be looking for sources but too lazy ;) ) on how beauty (or "hotness") doesn't correlate to the quality of sex.

no but hotness does correlate to the bragging rights :O)

She doesn't sound like the type that would practice safe sex.

And the men who were willing to hook up with do? Or doesn't it matter because they are guys?

or maybe he just wasn't commenting on the supporting cast. She is the star of the story.

thats great. whata sluebag

or maybe he just wasn't commenting on the supporting cast. She is the star of the story.

Here is what he said, to reiterate:

I think we should judge the risk to the public health. She doesn't sound like the type that would practice safe sex.

My point is, not matter what SHE does, if the men choose to be responsible there's no risk to public health. The burden for safety is on both partners and he only put the burden on her.

"Why would one assume that she is unsafe about it?"

She told The Sun: "I know that it was risky behaviour but that was part if the thrill."

DUH!

Quite honestly there are several risks factors to having sex. A number of them can be mitigated however repeated indiscriminate sex will increase those risks considerably.

As a woman STDs would be way down on my list of anxieties about meeting unfamiliar men in private locations.

She told The Sun: "I know that it was risky behaviour but that was part if the thrill."

DUH!

Alternatively, it could be because it's considered risky to meet with strangers on the internet. I was going to suggest there was the prospect of rape - but she'd still get what she was looking for.

This article at valleywag may have a photo of her.

Valleywag doesn't have a photo of her. The article says her name is 'Laura Michaels' (though other sites are reporting 'Lauren) whereas Valleywag are opting to poke 'Melissa'

I noticed the Melissa name but wasn't sure if that was a pseudonym

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Thanks, sorry about that, I just joined.

Welcome to the vine, Mr Diesel. :)

And if she ever gets pregnant, I imagine there will be a rather interesting episode of Maury shortly thereafter.

I've already seen the "I've had 13 paternity tests done and I still haven't found my baby's daddy!" episode of Maury. The sad thing is I think that's a monthly show.

And I only watch Maury when my bro's girlfriend puts it on. It's not the type of intelligent programming that I usually watch. I'm more of a Springer person....

Why has my Facebook account not similarly expanded my sex roster?

*goes on Facebook group search*

Newsvine had a largish presence there. Add me as a friend and see a lot of them.

I can't let this go past. You have a roster?

Can 1 be a roster?

Some things are much more efficient online, I guess.

Why must she have little self respect? Maybe she just enjoys sex? Otherwise I know plenty of frat boys with "little self respect" - lets not be sexist, here.

Yeah exactly they both have little self respect. She is a whore, they are a whore. I will hold them in the same respect. You are trying to defend the actions of an idiot, with the actions of an idiot? Yeah it just doesn't work that way. Frat boys are notorius for making well founded decisions though right, like paying for friends each month, mentioning them and placing a whore on the same platform will definately weigh in on my decision towards her.

You are trying to defend the actions of an idiot, with the actions of an idiot?

I'm not defending the actions of anyone, and I'm not calling anyone an idiot. That's your moral judgement, and your opinion, and you're welcome to it. But that's all it is, sorry. Besides which, you sort of missed the point: in our society (in many societies) men who get laid often get respect, while women are "whores". Disagree or agree as you will - it all goes back to that whole "opinion" thing - and I'm fairly certain neither she nor the frat boys are much bothered by either yours, or mine.

She is promiscuous - so what. Some people are self righteous and judgemental. Each to their own.

Well it is my opinion they have little self respect. The same way anyone who abuses their body has little self respect. That or they are not smart enough to know its self destructive behavior i.e. idiot. You were kind of defending her, by saying, "Otherwise I know plenty of frat boys with "little self respect" - lets not be sexist, here. " My response to that should have been," Yes you do know plenty of frat boys with little self respect, respect for others, and poor upbringing." I know that there is a double standard. I find that most people are of the opinion though, that to fix this, we simply remove the standard. We say, "Oh you had sex with 50 guys, I am not going to say that's a bad thing because it would be a double standard." I think both the men who do this and the women who do this are in the wrong, as I previously mentioned its self destructive behavior. It could even be called human destructive behavior in general, with the spread of disease that comes along with these actions..

That or they are not smart enough to know its self destructive behavior i.e. idiot.

It's ineffably self-destructive behavior? Why?

It could even be called human destructive behavior in general, with the spread of disease that comes along with these actions..

She could be promiscuous, yet (amazingly) careful about STDs. You know, that's also a possibility.

Condoms are it in the line of defense against STD's, the only amazingly safe way is to not have sex or at least not have new partners on the level she is having. Its no different than if you were addicted to herion. I guess though you could be addicted to herion and still be amazingly safe with your needles and dosage. lol

or at least not have new partners on the level she is having.

Ah, so what's the limit? A maximum of 2 partners a year guarantees "amazing safety" against STDs?

Its no different than if you were addicted to herion. I guess though you could be addicted to herion and still be amazingly safe with your needles and dosage. lol

Ah yes, because sex is illegal, and you can die from overdosing. lol

Again, self-destructive behavior? I find pseudo-moral self-righteousness to be more consistently self-destructive.

You can die from sex as well, so be carefull where you stick your Huwang Jack.

You can die from sex as well, so be carefull where you stick your Huwang Jack.

I've never met a girl who had a cyanide barb between her legs, but thanks for the heads-up, so to speak.

Now, care to address the thrust of my comment?

I don't know Jack... I personally haven't encountered a girl with something "extra" between her legs, but I used to hear stories when I was in the Marines about Japaneses girls who would doctor up their junk with some interesting objects with the intent to harm the US Military. Now again, I never encountered it or knew anyone personally that had either... It most definitely made me think twice about it before i hit it though :p

Well it is my opinion they have little self respect.

Yeah? And how well does that pay your bills? How much candy does it earn you? Seriously.

This is a forum where you post comments and opinions chasing, how much candy and bills does it pay for you to insult me over the net? You don't post your opinion here? Is it for candy? lol You are very funny chasing. Seriously

Jason, that scanned so poorly I'm not entirely sure what you mean. I merely point out that your opinion is simply that and, as I don't know the respect levels of those mentioned (and neither do you) may well be completely off base. And yet I'm quite certain they don't care one way or the other - because this is just a forum, especially in this thread, of comment and opinion. Which they aren't on. You have not stated a fact about their self respect. Nor why I should care if they have it, or not? What's it to either of us, really?

Oh well thanks for pointing that out chasing, before you did, I was very confused about opinions. You have added so much to this conversation. I think it is officially done and can be closed. You are a man of great insight that is for sure.

You are a man of great insight that is for sure.

Well you certainly aren't the first to say so, but I appreciate your heartfelt acknowledgement nonetheless.

Condoms are it in the line of defense against STD's, the only amazingly safe way is to not have sex or at least not have new partners on the level she is having.

Life is the first sexually transmitted fatal disease. Don't drink. Don't smoke. Eat right. Die anyway.

All you can do is take reasonable precautions. Being a monk won't make you live longer, it will just seem that way.

Yeah exactly Gwenny take reasonable precautions, like not sleeping with a new partner twice a day. I like sex as much, no more than the next person, but I can stand one partner for more than 12 hours anyway lol. I understand that living is fatal in itself, but advocating sleeping with new people at the rate this woman is doing is a little out there. Even if it wouldn't kill me, I still don't won't weird rashes or reoccurring bumps or any of that. There are a lot of stuff you can catch, most not fatal, but one hell of an inconvenience non the less.

I would probably be alarmed if she had 50 different partners in one night but I think more in terms of quality satisfaction. 50 sexual partners however isn't that bad if you enjoy variety.

Would those be the words of wisdom you would pass on to say a young daughter or son?

50 sexual partners however isn't that bad if you enjoy variety.

Well I would actually teach them safe sex, honesty and respect for others. So I would then leave the choice of number of partners up to them. If they are honest, safe and respectful about the choices of others - who cares how many partners they choose to have.

Well with a little luck your daughter will bring home a new guy every night for sex. I am pulling for you bro. She will be very respected through out her life.

I notice you seem to think your ridiculous moral judgements have more impact if you use the daughter reference rather than the son. Go play with the religiously pious, the rest of the world has moved on and no longer sees sexual freedom for men or woman as an indictment of personal character.

I am agnostic and hold no moral judgment. That being said if you want to raise your kids to think that multiple sexual partners is the way to go and completely cool, then so be it. I will teach my kids to have self respect and that giving ones body to another is sacred, the most sacred thing you can do with another. Its not like shaking hands or sharing an opinion. The consequences are much more dire. To each his own though, may your multiple sex having children have the best of luck.

Incorrect. Why don't you actually read what I said? I would concentrate my parenting skills on enabling them to think for themselves and make their own choices based on honesty, safety and respect for others.

Just because I don't care how many partners people have, that doesn't mean my offspring will have the same opinion. Stop projecting your sanctimonious moral judgements onto others.

Will you be as proud if they have 1-5 sexual partners, then if they have 500-1000? Answer honestly now.

::sigh:: I was just getting my ignore list cleaned out.

Honestly who cares how many? I would be happy if they were happy and a whole lot of sex can make you a whole lot of happy. Let's be honest who the hell has time for 500-1000 lovers? Oh that's right rock stars. If my child chooses to have multiple sexual partners that is his/her business. I couldn't care less provided my child is honest, practises safe sex and is respectful of the boundaries of others. If they are all these things then I would certainly have no reason to care about or even think about their sexual choices.

Even if it wouldn't kill me, I still don't won't weird rashes or reoccurring bumps or any of that. There are a lot of stuff you can catch, most not fatal, but one hell of an inconvenience non the less.

Would those be the words of wisdom you would pass on to say a young daughter or son? "Uh, don't shag lots of people, cuz like... bumps and stuff."

and hold no moral judgment.

Hah. What self-effacing bulls---. You've obviously passed moral judgment long before typing a single word here, and simply want to push your petty opinions upon us.

Yeah exactly Gwenny take reasonable precautions, like not sleeping with a new partner twice a day.

Ah yes, because you've decided that's a reasonable limit. It sounds like you might be justifying your own lack of ability through moral indictment.

She will be very respected through out her life.

Compared to the respect you've earned here? That's pretty much a given, no matter what she does.

The consequences are much more dire.

SRSLY, YO. You can die if you shag too much. You know, because orgasm overdose gives you heart arrhythmia, and a constant barrage... anyway, the point is that you can die from sex. That's why sex is sacred: it's deadly.

lol I must have pressed your buttons to get you to go off the handle like that Jack. You even know how much respect I have earned in my life, that is impressive for some one I have never met. Your post is very comical. You really showed me, wow I feel so insulted. Were you to busy to write seriously? Then you follow it up with YO? What the hell is this 1980 and are you holding a boom box to your ear while typing. SRSLY,YO.

Well you don't seem to read too well Jason, as Jack refers only to the respect you have gained on this thread. Your penchant for hyperbole and assumption may have caused the misunderstanding. I am enjoying your dig at the word 'Yo', clearly your use of the word 'Bro' is far more hip and today.

The ultimate irony to all of this is I probably have more sex than both of you guys, I just prefer to get to know somebody first. I am guessing since women like this are held in such high regard to you guys, its because you have trouble getting lucky and a woman that will do anything or anybody must really brighten your outlook on life and excite the hell out of you, "finally going to get some! He buddy, you already had some, back of the line with you, show some respect shes not a whore just likes multiple partners!" I apologize for all the comments, I should have came to that realization much sooner.

lol I must have pressed your buttons to get you to go off the handle like that Jack.

Hahaha, you haven't remotely seen me fly off the handle, kid.

You even know how much respect I have earned in my life, that is impressive for some one I have never met.

Sigh, work on your reading comprehension, boy.

Hooked on phonics worked for me.

clearly your use of the word 'Bro' is far more hip and today.

Sadly, even "bro" is now obsolete, having seen its heyday come to a close with the passing of 2 Fast 2 Furious. It's all about "brah" and "dude" now.

I am guessing since women like this are held in such high regard to you guys, its because you have trouble getting lucky and a woman that will do anything or anybody must really brighten your outlook on life and excite the hell out of you

Did you hear that, chasencash? You're disagreeing with him because you're desperate for badge! Hahahahahaha.

"finally going to get some! He buddy, you already had some, back of the line with you, show some respect shes not a whore just likes multiple partners!"

What a vivid description. I guess that's one anecdote your mother wasn't afraid of tellin' the chillun', eh?

I am guessing you think referring to me as boy and kid will raise my feathers? I am wondering why you used an Ebonics use of chillun and would bring my mother into this? You show your class with that one Jack. I think we have swayed somewhat from the conversation and now we are just participating in Elementary School back and forth name calling. With that I think I might go down stairs and get a BJ when I get back I expect something good to read Jack, don't let me down. Show me how superior you are by referring to me as a boy or kid. I have been to war Jack, a place where no boys or kids return, how about yourself?

I think it is funny that Jason refers to the eighties - what were you doing in the eighties Jack!

Sorry Jason Bro but your sense of irony is lost on me, unfortunately your sexist degrading attitudes towards women are not.

Your assumptions never end as I am not desperate and I am not male.

I am guessing you think referring to me as boy and kid will raise my feathers?

If I wanted to raise your feathers, even your shadow would cower in self-pity. For now, I'm just having a bit of fun, like an orca toying with a seal.

I am wondering why you used an Ebonics use of chillun and would bring my mother into this?

Just following your example of idly musing about our respective lifestyles.

I think we have swayed somewhat from the conversation and now we are just participating in Elementary School back and forth name calling.

Indeed. Forgive me for stopping to your level. But wait, I shouldn't be superior, either.

[Rock] [Me] [Hard place]

You show your class with that one Jack.

Middle? Wow, you're good.

With that I think I might go down stairs and get a BJ when I get back I expect something good to read Jack, don't let me down.

Haha, coming from the guy lecturing about respecting women, declaring yourself to be getting a BJ like one gets a beer seems... ill-fitting. ;-)

I have been to war Jack, a place where no boys or kids return, how about yourself?

Can't say I have, though I respond primarily to intellectual age. I call it as I see it, so I guess there are exceptions to your deep, philosophical rule.

Okay, if you want to play the insult game then you have got it, you look like Yoko Ono, but a male version. How in the heck can you get laid looking like Yoko Ono? It must be much easier in your part of the world.

Wow - you are crass, sexist, morally judgemental, sanctimonious and now you reveal yourself to be racist. Well to be fair a shift to racism wasn't really a surprise considering the fact that you are clearly stupid.

It must be much easier in your part of the world.

New Jersey? Oookay. If you say so, Jaws. ;-)

The ultimate irony to all of this is I probably have more sex than both of you guys, I just prefer to get to know somebody first.

OK, just to be clear, you did say that right. You said:

The ultimate irony to all of this is I probably have more sex than both of you guys, I just prefer to get to know somebody first.

Not some variation thereof, or some laugh-track, or sarcasm tag, just plain ol:

The ultimate irony to all of this is I probably have more sex than both of you guys, I just prefer to get to know somebody first.

Right? Right.

Wow, and so early in my morning, too. There you go, saying something like:

The ultimate irony to all of this is I probably have more sex than both of you guys, I just prefer to get to know somebody first.

Seriously, man, what are you trying to make me do, spew my coffee all over the monitor? And which do you think it'll be from, humor, or disgust?

Or, I know, MAYBE IT DOESN'T MATTER. Which sort of - sort of - makes your own chest-thumping point a bit moot. Neh?

The ultimate irony to all of this is I probably have more sex than both of you guys, I just prefer to get to know somebody first.

Sorry, couldn't resist one last time. But then hey - apparently neither can you!

Ebonics use of chillun

I think that is more of a southern thing.

And majority of gangsta slang was made by Williams Shakespeare.

I like that Jack, "Jaws," well played. You truly do live in a rough part of the world. I go to Philly about twice a year on business, if New Jersey is anything like it good luck. The last time I was in Philadelphia three cops were killed in two days. I digress though, and apologize for saying you look like Yoko Ono I was slightly inebriated at the time I wrote that and it was uncalled for. As far as the topic at hand, I am barking up several trees barking back at me, a no win situation. So you all win, I give.

viva la revolution to random sex

You truly do live in a rough part of the world.

Meh, my part of New Jersey (a stone's throw from NYC) is actually rather boring. Newark is rather ghettotastic, though.

I go to Philly about twice a year on business, if New Jersey is anything like it good luck.

I actually lived in Philly last year (literally on the edge of legal city limits), and while I wouldn't want to wander around downtown dark alleys alone, it generally doesn't feel any more dangerous than any other large city, and I've been to my fair share. Detroit's another story. :-p

I digress though, and apologize for saying you look like Yoko Ono I was slightly inebriated at the time I wrote that and it was uncalled for.

Honestly, I was more laughing at you for that than anything. I'm frankly impressed when someone takes the time to go to my column for quip material.

The last time I was in Philadelphia three cops were killed in two days.

Hahaha. Jason: The Calamity Jane of street crime. :-p
Of course, I'd venture to say that those stats aren't uncommon in the metropolises of the US.

Actually, that is not what I gathered from the locals in Philly, everywhere I went they were talking about the mayor not lifting a finger to stop the up swing in crime. I am from Nashville and work downtown, the population is 1/8 the size of Philly but I would call in a metro city. You can't walk 10 steps in Philly without someone hounding you for money, which they do that in Nashville as well, the main difference was they won't take no for an answer in Philly. They will follow you and ask until you finally get pissed and tell them to,"f*** off!" The last time I was in Philly though I took the New Jersey transit to New York City and the difference was night in day. I only saw one bum the entire time I was downtown Manhattan area. This made me very curious as to why Manhattan could be so clean and relatively safe compared to Philly. I asked around and they said Rudy Juliane had moved all of the soup kitchens and shelters further from the city. It makes sense because I remember when I arrived at the company in Philly they told me to avoid certain streets downtown, the reason was because they had soup kitchens/shelters on them. I am sure that is not the only problem, after taking a bus tour of Philly the driver told us to avoid several neighborhoods because a lot of big business had left and there were many unemployed and resorted to violence to survive. Now back on topic, world largest orgy in Japan? I am not sure it merits being called an orgy, I though orgies people swapped up partners? Never the less, the Japanese really went all out on this one.

http://www.weirdasianews.com/2006/10/13/world-record-in-japan-largest-orgy/

That was truly bizarre, it did not look like an orgy but more an orchestration of sex. I want to know if they knew each other beforehand.

Jason, I read your apology to Jack yesterday and I was actually surprised. I jumped on you for what I perceived as a racist comment but your apology and Jack's reply suggested that you were just being personal! If I misread your intent I apologise, however I am curious - are you still sexist?

I am still trying to figure out how you got racism out of my comment Chasencash, in fact I found it so offensive to be called a racist from that comment, I felt I need not dignify it with a response. I mean he made a joke about my mother, before I made my Yoko Ono comment and you did not accuse him of being sexist. I gather from your accusation that because the person I brought up was of a different race I was racist, then from that definition of racism, he brought up a woman, does that make him sexist? There are many ways to perceive some one to be one way or another. When you are already at ones throat, as you were at mine, anything I write you are going to be perceived as me being to an extreme one way or another,but because my opinion differs from yours you must think there is some extreme that leads me to think the other way. If Jack would have made a comment of me looking like another white celebrity, would you have perceived him as racist? The final answer I have though, no I am not racist or sexist. In fact I hate bigots altogether, I have never met anyone on this earth, who thought because of their race or sex they were superior that was nothing more than ill informed and under educated.

You guys obviously feel passionate about sex, so here you go, but no matter how many times you watch, its not going to happen.

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You can't walk 10 steps in Philly without someone hounding you for money, which they do that in Nashville as well, the main difference was they won't take no for an answer in Philly.

I honestly don't remember that as my experience in Philly. Sure, you do get the "proactive bums" who follow you down a block, begging for money, but they're really not a common sight at all. Then again, I guess it depends on what part of Philly you're in.

I only saw one bum the entire time I was downtown Manhattan area. This made me very curious as to why Manhattan could be so clean and relatively safe compared to Philly. I asked around and they said Rudy Juliane had moved all of the soup kitchens and shelters further from the city.

Yeah, Giuliani more geographically segregated NYC. Manhattan is a haven for the tourist shoppers and Wall Street types, with a strip called SoHo for trendy, financially secure bohemians.

after taking a bus tour of Philly the driver told us to avoid several neighborhoods because a lot of big business had left and there were many unemployed and resorted to violence to survive.

I guess it's all relative. I lived in Ann Arbor, near Detroit, before I moved to Philly, and to me, Detroit is the epitome of post-big-business urban decay. From what you're saying, I'd liken my thoughts about Detroit to your thoughts about Philly.

I jumped on you for what I perceived as a racist comment but your apology and Jack's reply suggested that you were just being personal!

Meh, I thought the "your part of the world" comment was trying to be racist, as well, so I simply tried to disarm it. Glad to know that it wasn't racist to begin with. :-p

You guys obviously feel passionate about sex

For the sake of your SO, I hope you do, too. :-p

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I can see how you could get the, "your part of the world," comment as being racist. It was not meant to be racist though, it was just an unintelligent comment. I should not have assumed you were apart of an Asian country and I should not have generalized Asian countries. I will take that mistake and swallow it as so. It is a stain on me. I watch and read about various Asian countries having relaxed sex laws or at least practices, like Thailand for instance. I should have remembered though, that most in those countries do it for survival, without choice. In the case of the missing link I sent. I have tried to track it down and it is a missing link 404 not found as you said, I guess they took it offline.

I can see how you could get the, "your part of the world," comment as being racist. It was not meant to be racist though, it was just an unintelligent comment. I should not have assumed you were apart of an Asian country and I should not have generalized Asian countries. I will take that mistake and swallow it as so. It is a stain on me

Fair enough.

I watch and read about various Asian countries having relaxed sex laws or at least practices, like Thailand for instance.

Hehe, Thailand's the proverbial butt of prostitute jokes. I think the prostitution industry is nowhere near as fleshed out in China, the Koreas, Japan, or the Phillippines, though. I know next to nothing about Singapore, but noting its rather strangely archaic social laws (against chewing gum, for example), it wouldn't be a surprise that it's become rather sexually controlled.

In terms of sex practices, however, I daresay that the US probably has as large a repertoire of sex practices as any other country. We're just more hush-hush about it, that's all. ;-)

I should have remembered though, that most in those countries do it for survival, without choice.

You mean sex slavery? Yeah, it's a sad, sad fact.

I watched a special on the sex trade in Thailand. I don't remember them interviewing any women who were not doing it for not only their survival, but that of their family as well. You have to put two and two together and realize that with the rising price of rice and other produce, that it will become all more common place. That is what is really depressing.

Seriously. Oh no! Bodily functions! *gasp*

It was over a 3 month period... and you're right if it was consecutive she would have a long way to go..

well, an additional 571 in a row might be more than just a long way..

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Houston_(porn_star) - she reported had sex with 620 guys in a row in the early 1990s - now that's endurance. Makes triathletes look like w